They took their BPD drama to friendzoned guys who would listen (chumps). You need to commit to this journey of improvement because it’s a lifestyle.If there’s one thing I can guarantee, it’s this: there are no guarantees.Also, forget about all the potential you think your partner has. This is why it’s vital that you work on your inner core every single day. Therefore, you must change the way you think about relationships. You wouldn’t be here if that wasn’t the case, right? They come and go as they please, and there’s nothing you can do about it.This is because the only thing that matters is what’s going on right now at this moment in your BPD or Bipolar relationship. A BPD relationship is already chaotic enough as it is. Study the mindsets that I teach and you’ll see where you make mistakes. I want you to spend time daily fixing these bad mindsets that can cause your partner to flee. Unfortunately, this good-natured character can cause you to develop this “white knight” attitude. You meet this person who you know can be amazing (your mind is in the future). Often times in BPD and Bipolar relationships, less is more.Cases of BPD are at an all-time high because you reject your true self. You fail to accept who you are as an imperfect being.This is the struggle of not only Borderlines, but almost all men and women.For example, here’s a message I got from a woman who went through my Better BPD Relationships course: Thank you for your BPD course.
Because of this, the girl’s they dated didn’t bother throwing drama and tantrums at these men.Whether that’s with your BPD lover or not doesn’t matter.Those who commit to my training always improve their lives.Absolute control over your emotional and mental state is key. You will find yourself chasing your partner, desperate for love. You would be so strong and centered that nothing could knock you off your path in life. You drop everything you’re doing in life for your partner.Your weakness shines and it causes the relationship to fail. Everybody I’ve ever known who achieved a lot of success in their life had the attitude of a winner.It’s why BPD relationships tend to have a Honeymoon Period. So, you work hard everyday, convinced that you can make your BPD partner “better.” You want to be the hero! You keep telling yourself that you know your partner could be so much better. When you seek a repeat of the Honeymoon Period, you lose focus on reality. Knowing this fact, why would you engage in hour long arguments that get you nowhere? People with bad mindsets will sit in bed arguing until 3 in the morning. You can begin to take note of certain actions and behaviors that stem from them.